this one is called... BOYS.

So here's the thing. why do we as girls bash boys so much? i dont think it's fair. i mean yeah, sure, they can be a little clueless, but can't we give them the benifit of the doubt? i feel like girls have such a low view of ourselves and of guys and we either think that we're not good enough or that guys are just dumb a**es and are out to ruin our lives. so here's the thing. when a girl has a crush on a guy- it's fine. but a guy is still just a guy. he doesn't have to talk to you. in fact he probably wont. is it a victory when he talks to us for over an hour on fb chat? is that even a real converstation? samething goes for texting. fact is guys dont communicate same way girls do. goooo figure! what's holding us back from having a real conversation with them? so here's the thing: the guy is giving what he can in the context of the kind of relationship it is. it is nothing more than a friendship. they're not obligated to anything more. i dont know if i make any sense but i just think it's stupid to get mad about a relationship that doesn't even exist.