WHERE ARE ALL THE MEN IN THIS WORLD? Any one know what happened to them all? I don't seem to understand how true man-hood is completely undermined in today's society and all the men are turning into pansy little boys. For the longest time now all it seems like is that all the men in my life are letting me down. And i really don't think i have that high of standards. But time after time after time i am continually disappointed with the way the guys in my life act or handle things. They are disrespectful of the girls in their lives, treating us like they would their guy friends, which is NOT ok. Here's a helpful hint fellas- Us girls aren't guys- so don't treat us like it! we don't get the same humor and we don't find the same things funny as you guys do. Another thing is the whole guys leading girls on. Like c'mon- really? if you like a girl really take the time to see if you should date her or not. if you feel like it's ok to date her- then DATE HER! if not, then say so! for real! let your Yes be Yes and your No be No. But don't do the whole "oh i like you but i still want to be your friend, but i like you more as a friend so let's kinda date, but with no strings attached, k?" thing. because here's what's prolly gonna happen. the girl will get more attached then she lets on, and it will break her heart when it doesn't work out- which chances are it wont work out. I think there needs to be a resurgence of Biblical manhood in today's society. I mean you'd think that being on a Christian campus you'd find some halfway decent guys around, but so far again, most of them have let me and many girls that i know down numerous times. So c'mon guys- Step up! be a man- for real!
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AMEN AMEN AMEN! Oh my goodness! And it drives me crazy when I meet those guys that are just flirty with every single girl, and don't seem to know how to stop. What happens when they get in a relationship? Are they even prepared for a relationship if they can't control their flirting?
ReplyDeleteHeck, what is flirting these days? It seems that if a guy writes a message on our Facebook wall or just says a simple "hello" to us in the hallway, immediately we are capable of falling in love and planning what colors our wedding will be. :P
Guys -- BE CAREFUL WITH A GIRLS HEART! And girls, same to you! I've seen too many girls screwing around with guys' hearts, especially at NWC...
Last I checked, the MRS degree is not available at Northwestern College. No need to rush these relationships, folks. It's not a requirement to find your soul mate in college...
Sorry, relationships has been a subject in my mind, and I feel like I just vomited out everything that has been bottled up in my brain the past few weeks. :)
haha oh Krista! you crack me up! but yes! we all need to be careful of our hearts and be looking after our brothers and sisters in Christ's hearts too! I personally am not one for flirting because it does lead into too many crazy emotions that just tear hearts apart- eww. messy. and no one likes messes, last time i checked. And i also noticed that NWC isn't providing a MRS degree here too- so stop flirting with every guy that you meet trying to make him your future husband girls! bc that's not okay!
ReplyDeleteThis is sadly true
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